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I always wrote "Thank you for your answer" for the answers in the comment section, but sometimes they were deleted. Is something like that unnecessary?

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Not only is it unnecessary, it is considered an unwanted practice on the Stack Exchange.

The founders of Stack Exchange noticed that one annoying thing about many online forums is that, oftentimes, over time, roughly half the verbiage in a thread would be devoted to answering a question, while the other half would be filled with extraneous "idle talk," that is, with comments like, "Thank you," or, "You're welcome, glad to help." (See, for example, this thread – not the easiest conversation to follow!)

Also, threads completely unrelated to the forum's main topic might generate a lot of comments. As an example, see this thread about fake lunar landings, which is found on runner's forum, of all places. I think the SE founders got tired of combing through discussion forums that got cluttered like this.

This is why all SE sites begin their Help Center tours by saying:

We're a little bit different from other sites. Here's how:

Ask questions, get answers, no distractions

This site is all about getting answers. It's not a discussion forum. There's no chit-chat.

Moreover, another section entitled What should I do when someone answers my question concludes by saying:

Please do not add a comment on your question or on an answer to say "Thank you". Comments are meant for requesting clarification, leaving constructive criticism, or adding relevant but minor additional information – not for socializing. If you want to say "thank you," vote on or accept that person's answer, or simply pay it forward by providing a great answer to someone else's question. (emphasis in original)

At first glance, this might seem like it's promoting a culture of coldness, but that's not really the case. I've seen cases where a newer user will get three answers, and leave a comment under each one that says, "Thank you for your help." This repetition takes away from the "No distractions" model that the Stack Exchange tries to maintain.

Many people on the Stack Exchange are busy people, and they only have a small amount of time every day to devote to SE. Comments that say little more than "thank you", while well-intended, simply don't add much value. Most regulars would rather have an upvote than a thank-you comment – it's worth more and says as much.

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    Incidentally, I don't have a problem with saying "thanks" as a prelude to a follow-on question or comment, as you did here. I don't think the mod team has too get too zealous about stamping out every iota of civility. – J.R. Jul 15 '18 at 10:43
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    I agree with J.R.'s point that it's not the "thanks" that is the problem - it is comments that are only posted to say "thanks" and have no other purpose. Comments should primarily be used to request clarification or to offer constructive criticism. – ColleenV Jul 15 '18 at 22:55
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I was going to leave this as a comment... however... ;)

Some stacks are chattier than others. Some clean up with prejudice after a brief period of chatty discourse; others leave it to posterity.

There's no hard & fast rule right across SE, but tidying up your own comments after a Question and Answer is firmly in place is a good way of 'self-policing' & honing the final discourse to the ideal...

One Question, Several Possible Answers, One of Which is Accepted

  • The conversation has been moved to chat as it was unrelated to this answer. If someone wishes to discuss a different topic, they should post their own question. – ColleenV Jul 21 '18 at 18:56
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Courtesy is the lubrication of society, even on-line societies. It's part of the tragic culture of SE to reject that lubrication. "We are Borg. You will be assimilated." is not an expression of malice, simply a statement of fact.

That's what it feels like to spend a lot of time on SE. But then, it also pairs up well with the personalities. So, what are you going to do but continue to fight against it and be barraged with downvotes and threads of circular arguments?

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    There are many ways to extend courtesy. One is to say "thank you"; that way works well in day-to-day verbal exchanges on the subways and in elevators. But just because repetitive textual comments are discouraged on SE doesn't mean we are throwing out courtesy and civility and replacing it with coldness and ingratitude. – J.R. Jul 25 '18 at 11:11
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    Don't you think courtesy and politeness are almost entirely dependent on context and culture? I mean, manners are learned behaviours, aren't they? I would say courtesy is doing what the people you are interacting with will consider courteous, respectful and appropriate. Knowingly and self-righteously violating the rules and standards of a community is surely the definition of rudeness, isn't it? – Au101 Jul 28 '18 at 20:17
  • If anyone would like, this discussion can be continued in chat. (Previous comments archived there.) – J.R. Aug 2 '18 at 22:03

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